Jan 15, 2013

Real hero



The common notion of hero is usually used for the principal character in a play or movie or novel. It is a man distinguished by exceptional courage and nobility and strength. He often fights against a monster or an army of strong enemies for a cause, a value such as justice, freedom or in order to protect other people. All these seem grandiose. But Eugène Ionesco, a playwright of the Theatre of the Absurd, has a different notion of hero. For him, who knew how it was under the Communism, the Nazism, the Fascism and who lived throughout the Second World War, the real hero is the one “who dares think against the course of History, against all odds and dares challenge the spirit of his times”. 

In other words, he had an aversion to ideological conformism. His true hero is the one who stands unchanged against this tide of blind conformism, as it was his message in his play Rhinoceros. Everyone is transformed into a rhinoceros, except one man, who at the end of the play, remains alone and still resists the transformation.

People under these political regimes are like puppets controlled or menaced by an outside force. Ways of thinking are imposed on them. They have to follow an ideology. They lack freedom of expression and of thought. People who dare manifest a sign or blurt out a single word against the regime will be arrested and executed. They are crushed under the weight of the political machine and for their own safety and survival, for the stability of their lives they must carry that weight. 

But when such a machine becomes oppressive, obsolete and tyrannical, then changes must be made. It is certainly not easy to do as revolution is often a labour of tears and blood, and personal sacrifices must be made. Nevertheless, as long as people dare to dream and fight for a better world, even with all society and its prejudices, laws and customs against them, with even their lives and close ones at stake or even if the battle is considered by everyone as vain and hopeless, they would succeed one day. It is this determination to make the future by their hands that make them a true hero. 



Copyright text: Huong Ly Dang

Nov 13, 2012

Good and bad



The notion of good and bad is certainly the most presented in people mind. Since we were a kids, parents tried to teach us what good was, what bad was. Education also aims to help us distinguishing these two concepts. However, the notion hasn’t been clearly defined yet, or at least, it exists no common thought for everybody.

In general, things that make us feel well and happy are considered as good. It is often the case when our desires are fully satisfied. Talking about a little boy who was spoilt by his parents by giving him everything he wishes, other kids might, at first, be jealous of him. But seeing how unhappy he is when he obtains everything he wants and doesn’t know what he really needs anymore or when he will be on the bum, they will realise how lucky they are and thank their parents for not indulging them.

There is a moment when we enjoy the pleasure, and later, when we regret and blame ourselves. Everything that pushes us in this position can’t be regarded as good and should be avoided since the happiness it brings is just ephemeral, while the misfortune, which is the consequence, lasts long time after. 

On the other hand, sometimes we have to suffer first and then rejoice afterward. It is the case of bitter medicine which is, however, good for the health or a very painful operation which can cure the illness and save our life. If we have to choose between short moments of pleasure then a lifelong misfortune and a passing suffering then an eternal happiness, I don’t think most of us will hesitate to opt for this second alternative. As Alain Botton once said: “Not everything that makes us feel better is good for us. Not everything which hurts is bad.”



Copyright text Huong Ly Dang

Nov 3, 2012

20 oct. flower from mon cherie

Un beau cadeau est un cadeau qui vient du coeur de celui qu'on aime. Cette rose n'a pas la valeur d'un diamant ou un sac de marque comme toutes les filles demandent à leur copains de les acheter, mais pour moi, elle vaut même plus que l'or. C'est l'intention qui compte comme on dit. :) 


Watch: Swatch
Vintage clock: CASA
Lindt chocolate box
Chopstick Hello Kitty


After 2 weeks, the flower is still blooming. I really love this rose. I find it very charming with its two color, white and rose. Moreover, I appreciate it because of the one who gives it to me :">







Oct 18, 2012

Back in some old time

Envie un peu de chic rétro aujourd'hui... Un pantalon au couleur bordeaux  mixé avec une chemise en soie fluide au col doré, à quoi s'ajoute un blazer noir quand le temps fait frais sera le tenu parfait pour une soirée au bar... En disant ça mais j'avoue, aller au bar n'est pas mon activité quotidienne. Même que les fois où j'y étais durant ces 18 années peuvent être comptés sur le bout de mes doigts T___T 


Blouse: Cubus
Red wine pants: H&M



Black blazer: Pimkie